Jealousy – A nature’s Meter

 Nature's Meter

Nature has provided us with some meters, which can help us to understand our deep needs. As a drop of blood in a lab gives us the excess or deficiency of sugar in our body. Jealousy in us is also an indication of deficiency in us or excess in others of something. Jealousy can help people , if they know how to interpret the reading and convert a very powerful and  damaging emotion to a healthy one.

Meter’s Message

Jealousy always gives a message that ‘I deserved this but someone else has got it ‘. Jealousy happens between supposedly equal persons. It can be between brothers, as they feel, that just by being brothers, they are equal at some level, hence each deserve what other has got. Here the perception of sameness at some level is the criterion.

Medicine

As after our sugar test, certain precautions are advised by the doctor to remain healthy. Here one has to understand the message of the jealousy meter and take the medicine.

Here the medicine is of three types – 

First jealousy,  is other oriented, where one feels, prays, acts to demolish the others possession.

Second  Envy is,  to convert the jealousy to Envy, which is self centered. Envy   feels, prays, works to achieve the same and not destroy the others.

Third – if it is not possible act and achieve, then  accept  that it is destiny.

But this is one part of the Story. Other is when others are jealous of you then

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